So, me and my partner have our first wedding coming up where we're doing it together. I will be the main shooter, she'll be my second.
I have the following gear to divide into x2 kits.
Bodies: D800, D700
Speedlights: SB600 x2 (1 with softbox)
Zooms: 16-35 f4, 24-70 f2.8, 70-200 f2.8
Primes: 20 f2.8, 50 f1.8, 85 f1.8
A tripod and a monopod.
Fortunately the bride and groom aren't really the sort to be bothered about what we do and they have no high expectations. We've basically just been told to 'get on with it and do what you think is best' so it'll be a great experience for us both.
The question is, how would you divide that kit out and what, if anything, would you leave at home.